Category Archives: Kaizen for Couples

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Cheated on ? How To Move Past It To Grow Together.

Been cheated on? Betrayed? Sideswiped and blindsided by someone you love? That hurts so much. Cheated on? How could that happen? You thought everything was OK. Well, maybe, you weren’t quite as involved, or caring, but you told yourself that relationships settle into daily life. After focusing on each other so intently, you started seeing friends…

Listening in a relationship is important

Listening Well Really Matters. Here’s Why!

Many relationship issues arise from lack of listening. Hearing is NOT enough. You have to listen. The major difference between hearing and listening is that hearing engages your ears only and listening engages your mind. You hear lots of sounds: noises in the house, cars going by, televisions in the background. You don’t listen to these unless…

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3 Key Shifts To Make Your Good Relationship Great

Warm, comfortable relationships can get even better with these three key shifts. Many times, when your relationship seems happier, easier, and more content than ones your friends have, you think you’ve hit the jackpot. Maybe, it’s no longer exciting, new, or intriguing, but it is comfortable and seemingly secure. That’s a super starting place! But…

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Manage Anger Or It Will Manage You!

When people come to me for anger management coaching and classes, they often say: “I don’t like who I am when I let my anger fly!”  They are disappointed, embarrassed, humiliated, and/or, having to mop up a big spill of emotions that didn’t need to happen. You might say, “Yes, it did! I just couldn’t stand…

Why Do You Want Him Back When He Treats You Badly?

Has the guy you say you love behaved badly: cheated, yelled, belittled, put down, run off, or badmouthed you? So many times, women write to me and ask how to get back a guy who has behaved badly. The guy has moved on to greener pastures and unsuspecting victims, yet they lament to me that they really love…

Do You Want to Keep Your Limitations?

Richard Bach wrote this remarkable line: “Argue for your limitations and they are yours.”  It has had a great impact on my life. How many times have you made a case for why you couldn’t possible do something? And then, you were proven right. You couldn’t!  Was it actually about circumstances or other people, or…