When life and love feel crazy-making, you need insights, skills, strategies....and answers. Those, I offer. I've helped hundreds of people just like you get unstuck and clearer on their best next steps for more than twenty-five years.
My particular specialty is working with the partners, exes, adult children, and co-workers of chronically difficult people. I call them "Hijackals™." (If you're not sure if the person you are thinking of is actually a Hijackal, download my free ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal, HERE.
It's difficult--some say almost impossible--to really see what's going on by yourself. Having a "guide on the side" is the best way to figure things out and take the next best steps. I want to help you communicate, manage conflict, negotiate and collaborate effectively: all essential elements for creating the honesty, safety, trust, and respect healthy relationships require.
Have you thought or said any of these things, lately?
When you click on each topic below, you'll soon get to my video comments for each. This is a work in progress, and these are the most common relationship issues I receive questions about.
I can help you with these challenges.
Do you think you are ready to start couples work or get individual relationship help? Let's talk and find out! Book a consultation, right now!
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Schedule a private session with Dr. Shaler. This insures that you will get the fastest answer and the most immediate help. You can meet with her in-person or through Zoom from wherever you are in the world. Schedule your appointment HERE now.
Please understand, Dr. Shaler is NOT a sex therapist. This is not the place for questions about improving your actual sex life or performance, however, questions regarding deepening emotional and psychological intimacy as it relates to your relationship in the bedroom may be asked and will be answered.