The Relationship Checklist

Take 3-5 minutes and get some insight into your relationship…

Couple Sitting On Sofa Arguing

This is a great place to start. We’ve carefully developed this survey* to ask deep questions and calculate your responses to give you the most accurate snapshot of where your relationship IS and what it could take to get is where you want to be.

Take your time to carefully consider each item in the Relationship Checklist. Answer as honestly as you possibly can, because it DOES make a difference.


SCORING: For each item in this quiz, give only one number between 1 and 5. 1 indicates it is almost never so in your relationship. 5 indicates it is almost always so.

When you’re done, you’ll be automatically taken to a results page, based on your score.

You should also receive your results with links to more details, by email, if you have to close the final page.

*Disclaimer: The Relationship Checklist, created by relationship consultant, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, is intended for general use only. It is intended to provide you with insights about your relationship and does not purport to provide anything beyond stimulating your thinking. You are encouraged to consult Dr. Shaler or work with a professional counselor or therapist. This checklist is not intended to replace professional therapy or counseling.


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