Relationship Help Network

You’ll get excellent information, with expert guests who bring insights and strategies for clearly seeing what is going on in your relationship with yourself, your partner, your parents, teens, children, co-workers.

Get straight talk to help you see and understand the person you are in relationship with, and make good decisions and changes to manage difficult, toxic–often disturbing–relationships with Hijackals!

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Listen in to my podcasts, and get answers and insights to many surprisingly common relationship issues that often cause you to feel incredibly alone and mistreated. I tackle all kinds of different topics, including how to improve your relationship with yourself, so you can be a better partner.  There are lots of episodes in the can, and more coming every week. 

Who would benefit from listening to these podcasts?

If you answer yes to ANY of the questions below… then YOU would!

Is your relationship in crisis?
Do you wish you had more confidence?
Are you tired of constant Drama?
Do you feel comfortable to speak up when you’re put down?
Raised by Toxic Parents?
Do you know want to have better boundaries?
Too much Crazing-Making Conflict?
Do you need help to see your relationship clearly?
Need help dealing with Relentlessly Difficult People?

I’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. 

I offer urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis.

I’ll bring you new perspectives, insights, and strategies to create healthy, “grown-up” relationships…and to shift away from relationships that are unhealthy, controlling, and dysfunctional.
You want to feel equal, to experience reciprocity without score-keeping, to know someone has your back while walking by your side. Because nothing less will do!

This is the only podcast devoted to helping you handle those relentlessly difficult people I call “Hijackals®.” Those are people who hijack your relationship for their own purposes. Then, they continually scavenge it for power, status, and control. They leave you feeling gutted, discarded, devalued, and emotionally raped.

Talk soon!
~~ Rhoberta


Be a guest expert! We welcome submissions from recognized and published professionals who would like to contribute to the conversations Dr. Shaler is having.

If you have valuable insights, ideas or information to share, I’d like to hear from you!

Complete a Guest Application Today.

Do you have a question you think would be valuable for me to answer on my podcasts?

 Submit a question by email or, tell your story on air in person.

Get Help:

I accept a few new clients each month.  If you are ready to make meaningful changes to the way you proceed in your relationship(s),  let’s talk very soon.  

After your Introductory session, you will be able to choose an 8 or 15 session package to work with me. During that session, you will decide which package you prefer.

You know cannot solve any difficult relationship issues without a serious commitment. It takes time, and it takes real WORK. If you could have done it without help, you would have by now, right? 

I will walk with you, and guide you through the learning that you need to communicate better, understand each other more clearly, and develop personal and relationship boundaries that will keep you on track and build trust again.